Wednesday, 28 April 2010

Could it be that...


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...wives or should I say women generally when it comes to relationships need to lighten up a bit sometimes. Some one forwarded me the story below and  I must say it cracked me up.


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They have been married for a long time. As usual they have their ups and downs. One day they had a big fight and things are falling apart. He was disappointed and she was angry.
After one week of silence treatment from her wife, he approached her with papers and pencils. He suggested that both of them sit down on the dining table and write down on paper what they are not happy about each other. They will then exchange the papers and discuss.
So the wife started to write without looking up because she has a lot to write about her frustration. The husband took a long look at the wife and he too started to write. After fifteen minutes of writing, they look at each other and exchange the papers.
The husband looked at the paper full of complaints. She was angry. When the wife looked at his paper, she was embarrassed and quickly tears away her own paper. On his paper, he wrote for two full pages:
"I love you, honey".

What are your views or thoughts???? You are welcome to share.

6 comments:

  1. Awwwwwwwwwwwwww. Well, I'm speechless. I would have cried if it were me, lol.

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  2. Wow! Perhaps one of the best stories I've read when it comes to settling quarrels in relationships. I love it! Awesome! Thanks for sharing Shona.

    - LDP

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  3. Wow! this is a good one.Sure women need to lighten up but its not just women, men too.

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  4. Am a women I wld understand why she did that, as women we need to be reminded that we are loved, why wait for silence before one could say it or write? No woman will ever resist love if she knows she is loved.The communication of women is in words.

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  5. Am glad you all loved the story - it touched me too when I first read it, I just had to share.

    Gisela- you are right, us women are feely people and are more emotional than men. We want to be told we are loved as often as possible and feel that indeed we are loved. As one person said a woman is most beautiful when she is loved.I think there is some truth in that statement.

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  6. The husband has the right idea. Instead of sharing his disappoint with her, he chose to respond with grace and agape love.

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